One of the most common questions we are asked at AMS Mediation is whether or not divorce mediation can be successful for a divorce that is complex, high in conflict and/or emotion, or just simply difficult. Most people assume that complicated divorces are destined for a court battle. However, divorce mediation is actually highly effective and even recommended by the courts BEFORE you attempt to resolve your divorce in a courtroom. So, the answer to that common question is yes. No matter how complicated your divorce, no matter how much conflict you and your ex have between you, it is very possible (and even likely) that with the help of an experienced and skilled mediator, you can resolve the terms of your divorce using mediation.
Minnesota Courts Recommend Divorce Mediation
Mediation is an extremely effective tool for resolving issues with less stress and less conflict than a court battle. Mediation takes less time and costs less money as well, which also benefits all parties. In addition, mediation can occur at your convenience, without having to rely on the court’s busy calendar or the schedules of attorneys who are juggling many different divorce cases. You can even complete the process virtually, from the comfort of your own home, which can also make the process more relaxed, flexible and comfortable and minimizes the stress of having to see your ex in person.
Mediation focuses on finding common ground, finding areas for compromise and lowering the temperature of the conflict, rather than adding fuel to the fire. Mediation is collaborative and cooperative, rather than a win/lose process, so you may find that your conflict is actually reduced during mediation. Generally, when you hire divorce attorneys and begin a lengthy court battle, you find just the opposite – your conflict only gets worse.
Effective Divorce Mediation Services in Minnesota
AMS Mediation has many years of experience helping families navigate the divorce process in the state of Minnesota. We encourage couples to learn more about the mediation process as soon as possible since the courts now require you to participate in an Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) process before even appearing in court. Why not give divorce mediation a try? Even if your divorce is complicated and you and your spouse have built up a lot of conflict, the process can be productive and successful. For more information, give Amber Serwat a call at AMS Mediation at 952-252-1492 to schedule a free consultation.
