One thing most of us have in common when we go through a divorce is that we are beginners. You have experience with a divorce because you have not been through it before. However, this can create some additional stress about the process. Divorce mediation has become a highly effective and popular mechanism for settling the terms of a divorce, with many people choosing it over litigation. If you are beginning the divorce process for the first time, here are some basic principles that will help you navigate it successfully:
● Divorce mediation is less expensive and less time consuming than litigation.
● Mediation can be less stressful than a court battle for you and your children.
● Your mediator will not make decisions in your case, can answer process questions and will facilitate productive discussions that can result in your divorce settlement.
● The Minnesota court system requires that you attempt an alternative dispute resolution technique like mediation before going through the court system.
● You can settle all of the terms of your divorce via mediation including dividing your assets, deciding on a parenting plan (also known as a custody agreement) and determining whether child support or spousal maintenance is needed.
● You are not required to have a lawyer to represent you in the mediation process.
● You can expect to need 3-4 two-hour mediation sessions over the course of 6-12 weeks to complete the process. Your mediator can then make sure that your divorce agreement is filed in court.
● You can complete virtual or in person mediation sessions depending on your preference and your schedule.
● Mediation is entirely confidential and can work even in high conflict divorces.
● Mediation allows you to have a lot of input in the outcome and is very often more successful as a result in the long term.
● The mediation process is often less emotionally taxing on your children than a long and contentious court battle.
Navigating the Divorce Process with a Family Focus
AMS Mediation can help guide you through each and every step of the divorce process using divorce mediation and other services that are designed to provide you with support. We understand that divorce is difficult and realize that you likely have no experience with the process when you begin. Our staff is experienced and knowledgeable and will provide you with resources and guidance as you make the decisions that will allow you to put your children first and move forward with your life. For more information, give us a call at 952-252-1492.
